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Meditation: Health And Science

Why Patience Is Essential In Successful Meditation

Many who attempted meditation end in giving up feeling frustrated.  Some may even question its effectiveness.  Well, I was one of them.  I even used to doubt if those who claimed to have reached the state of enlightenment through meditation have indeed reached that point.  I can’t even get myself to concentrate for a minute.




What Is Enlightenment?

Life has been full of pain and sufferings.  Is there someone you know who had lived or still living that never experience getting hurt?  No person could avoid such, and no matter how unwillingly we are, we will at one point in this lifetime cause others pain, too.


Isolating or separating yourself from others can’t make you free from suffering either.   In fact, the more you detach yourself, the more painful it would be for you.  Even people around you will be hurt by the fact that you are trying to avoid them.


The answer then is not becoming pain-free, but being able to accept that pain and suffering as part of our lives.


Pain Comes For A Reason

Look around you, and see that all are suffering just like you.  The only difference is that they still manage to smile despite the pain they carry in their hearts every day.  We feel hurt because of our attachment to someone or something.  That pain causes us to feel lost and afraid and yet expect so much for the future.  In recognizing the pain and trials, we become hopeful, and that hope empowers us to keep on going.


Leave The Past Behind, And Mind What’s In Front Of You Today

Our relationship should not be based on fears that we might lose them someday and be alone.  We should not see the future as like that in fairytales.  Sometimes, we are too focused on the wrong timeline that we forgot to see what’s in for us today.  And that’s when we miss our opportunity to be happy.




The reality is that life is simple and should be lived simply.  Life is not your past and not your fantasy.   It is here now in front of you.   Whoever is in it, look, appreciate and live with it, and be happy.


That is enlightenment at its glory.  Being able to accept and see things without much expectation of the future.  Looking at life with the right intention, not harming, not manipulating, but enjoying each moment, doing what you need to do, saying what is in your heart.  Then, you’ll have no regrets, and you’ll have your inner peace.


Sometimes, things become complicated because of our tendency to imagine the future.  We become so hard on ourselves (and other people around us) because we think “this is how it should be.”  That thinking can turn you into a robot with no feelings, only looking at what’s ahead, getting to that goal without care.


You can still be the best that you can.   You can achieve anything with integrity through the talent given to you.  Learning to do things the right way, paying attention to details, being present at the moment take away the need to struggle and run over someone (either intentionally or unintentionally).


Silence Is Not The Key

I sat there for five, 10, 30 minutes, in silence, but I can’t seem to achieve a moment of deep concentration.  My mind was everywhere, and my body was eager to make a move.  I was never successful in my first, second, nth tries.  It took me years, but I never gave up.


I read books, practice being present, appreciate everything around me (even the noise).  I sat in the same corner every day for just 5 minutes.  In the office, right in my chair whenever something bothers me, I just close my eyes.  Success in meditation is not about the silence around me, but to silence the one within me is the secret.  Peace can be achieved with patience to wait for it to happen.




Patience can bring you in the present moment, and mindful of all those around you turns you into someone who talks with politeness, stand with dignity, walk with confidence, and think with clear mind taking into consideration others emotions.


Meditation is not about hurrying things, but being patient, until the time comes.  It’s a habit you will develop over (the right) time, not at the time you wanted to.  Because meditation is not magic, but a practice that cultivates patience and discipline through your mind that your body will follow.

Healing After A Loss: Meditation For Your Grief



Grief can be caused by losing someone we love or something precious to us. It can bring us into deep despair which can be challenging to overcome. Grief defined as a form of the following:


  • Sadness
  • Depression
  • Regret
  • Anger
  • Fear


These forms of grief can confine us eternally, and each of us has a different approach in dealing with them. There’s no manual to follow to get out of it. All of us have experienced grief in different ways, and people grieve about various things. The executive director of the Grief Recovery Institute, Russell Friedman, said that grief isn’t confined to a loss of a loved one; a change in behavior can cause it. Keren Humphrey, the author of the book Counseling Strategies for Loss and Grief, and a retired counseling professor described grief as a loss of something meaningful.


Whenever you realize that you are grieving, it is fundamentally necessary to think if you have done enough to overcome it completely. Some cultures have suggested that there is a length of time for someone to spend in the grieving process. However, for some, they can move on by being busy, going on about their day to day lives and eventually, their grieving emotions begin to fade.



Approaches To Resolving Grief

One way of overcoming grief is the realization that our loved one will not want us to be suffering. Instead, they’d like us to recall the good memories with them and move on with our lives.


Not knowing how to arrive at a resolve or conclusion can prohibit us from freeing ourselves from grief. Also, releasing ourselves from grief can really be tough since the person is no longer present. However, there’s a recent technique from an ancient concept which can help us with the grieving process, and it is called forgiveness.


The first technique is we need to know what type of emotion we are feeling and think if we need to keep it that way, and for how long we need to endure it.


Another technique is to focus on the positive things which help lessen the grief we are feeling. Lastly is to have someone to talk to about things we regret to say or left unsaid for a while.


The following is a form of meditation which can reduce the feeling of grief.


Meditation For Grieving

If you ever felt grief due to the passing of a loved one, allow a few minutes to sit still and read on the following steps for meditation.


  • Look for a place where you will not be distracted or bothered for the next 15 to 20 minutes. Sit on a pillow or a blanket to feel at ease.


  • Start deep breaths at a slow pace. Focus on your emotion, just feeling it and not analyzing it.


  • Begin to recognize your feelings in a kind and caring way. Try to think about the face of your loved one or visualize them sitting in front of you.


  • Then think about the unsaid things you want to say and believe that you are speaking with them. Say what is in your heart, focus on the emotions and think of what will they most likely tell you. Say that you forgive them and let them say the same for you.


  • Then bring your focus to the happiest memories you have with them. Try to relive the happy times and deep relations you have with each other allowing grief to become a positive feeling.


  • Once done, breathe deep and slowly again. After a few minutes of silence, you may end your meditation.


There’s no immediate solution to remove the pain from grieving. It is a journey which can be short or long. One thing to keep in mind is that we need to go through it rather than suppress it and pretend that everything is fine. Suppressing your grief can bring about physiological symptoms sooner or later. Facing your pain and being more honest with yourself will help you recover better during the grieving process.

The What And How-Tos Of Biblical Meditation


Meditation – most people would associate it with relaxation, allowing the mind to rest, freeing ourselves from our worrisome thoughts, being mindful about the NOW and not on either what’s already PAST or what’s still COMING. Well, it’s even associated with yoga! It’s because of these meanings that Christians shun away from meditation. They say it’s an unbiblical practice.

But how very wrong that way of thinking is! The Bible encourages believers to meditate. The Bible contains 20 verses that have the words meditation and meditate. So, if you’re a Christian wanting to do meditation but just isn’t sure how’s it done fitting with your conviction, below are the what and the how-tos regarding Biblical reflection.


Do Mindful Meditation



Overwhelmed with stress lately? Felt like your heart’s taken a roller coaster ride with surging positive and negative emotions? Or have you experienced something traumatic or painful recently like divorce, the death of a loved one or job loss? If these are the cases then, you might want to set yourself free with mindful meditation – a practice that allows you to focus on your NOW.


How to Begin Meditating



 It can be difficult to figure out how to begin your meditating journey when you first take interest in meditation. There are a variety of different meditation methods and there are several personal choices that you need to take into consideration before you begin practicing meditation. However, there are some universal things that pertain to everyone who meditates. You can begin getting tips from institutions such as Fire Star Yoga. If you are new to meditation, take a look at the guidelines below to help you begin.


Different Types of Meditation 



When you think about the word meditation, what comes to your mind? Your brain most likely conjured up an image of a man in an orange robe chanting the word “Om”. While this may be the typical way that we perceive meditation to be, the truth is is that there is much more to it. There are a variety of different practices that one could pursue based on what they’re looking for to achieve by meditating. For those of you who are seeking certain benefits from meditation, here is a list of several popular types of meditation methods.


How Meditation Works On Pain And Stress Relief




“Close your eyes and focus on your breathing. Be aware of yourself from within. Stay in the present. Don’t drift in the past or in the future. Bring your attention to now.”


Those are only some of the words that people use to lead their meditation classes, in particular, mindfulness meditation. Simple, yet powerful. Thousands have attested to the healing benefits of meditating, be it physical, mental or emotional healing. While the practice of meditation originated from the Buddhists in their quest for inner peace and balance, a large population of North Americans has been utilizing meditation for stress and pain relief. But how do these meditations work? How do mantras heal the mind, body and soul? Let us discuss the reasons here.


Meditation For Those With Back Pain And Other Issues 




Back pain and other types of pain are common issues that can end a meditation session early. It is difficult to focus on being mindful if the only thing your mind is focused on is the ache in your lower back. If you have problems with back pain or other pain during meditation, here are some alternative meditation poses that may be a better fit for you.


Meditation Mistakes


Meditation can be an amazing tool if it is used properly. However, there are plenty of mistakes that beginners make that prevent them from getting the most out of their meditation sessions. If you are new to meditation and you feel as though you are not getting the benefits of meditation that you should be, take a look at some of the common meditation mistakes below.



How Meditation Can Help You  



Meditation is the practice of calming the mind and grounding yourself in the present. Although there are many health benefits linked to meditation, it is often overlooked as a legitimate method to heal the body and the mind. For those who may be curious about the health benefits of meditation but are not quite sure if they are ready to begin meditating on their own, here are some ways in which meditation can help you.

For one it is a good positive diversion in reducing stress and anxiety, a form of self-help towards getting inner peace. Compare this to resorting to negative diversions due to stress, such as alcohol and substance abuse, which will definitely give birth to more problems as you would need help dealing with the addiction.